But they exist, and with a little awareness and attention, you can get the Os you deserve, from the fireworks-on-display kind to the calm oh-my-gods. When you find yourself missing out on the Big O, there are three likely culprits: expectations, communication, and method. And alongside all of that, experimenting is required. The clitoris is a small organ with a lot of nerve endings that peeks out from the tiptop of the vulva, is often covered by a hood, and extends down the inside of the labia. The best way to stimulate the clitoris is by gently rubbing with the fingers, palm, or tongue in a back and forth or circular motion. Instead of a penis, try fingers or a sex toy. Anal orgasms are much more common in men because of the prostate, but can also be achieved simply by rubbing the outside of the anal opening as well as stimulating the inside of the anus with a finger.
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The Full Body Energetic Orgasm: Revolutionise Your Sex Life
Sexual Shamanic Practitioner and Empowerment Coach Catherine Hale reveals the secrets behind sexual empowerment, the full body orgasm and intense levels of bliss. About 4 years ago I first experienced the Full Body Energetic Orgasm, my body shook and convulsed, I connected to deep pain and cried then broke into waves of pleasure rushing through my body: riding the wave of pure ecstasy! For the next few days my body felt electric, vibrant and radiating health and well-being. The profundity of this changed how I viewed my sexuality, what I perceived orgasm to be, and showed me the wisdom that sexual energy wasn't just for the bedroom but was actually the most powerful energy available for healing. I made it my mission to explore the power of sexual energy for healing my own body, discovering the ever more subtle nuances of energetic orgasm.
You have probably heard that women can have clitoral or vaginal orgasms. You might have even read about the debate within academia around whether vaginal orgasms even exist. However, the experience of many women, my experience as a sexual coach, as well as the ancient science of Tantra , all prove that women can actually experience many different and distinct kinds of orgasms. We can differentiate orgasms by anatomy, the direction of the energy, the strength and length of the orgasm , and by the orgasm's effects on the physical, energetic, emotional, mental and spiritual spheres. There are a few major erogenous zones in a woman's body.